在Wing獸處看到的, 摘自Paulo Coelho(保羅．科爾賀)的 Eleven Minutes《愛的十一分鐘》：
In love, no one can harm anyone else; we are each of us responsible for our own feelings and cannot blame someone else for what we feel.
It hurt when I lost each of the various men I feel in love with. Now, though, I am convinced that no one loses anyone, because no one owns anyone.
This is the true experience of freedom: having the most important thing in the world without owning it.